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Complicity in lies designed to unfairly disadvantage. Great secrecy surrounded the issue of our children's further education. The code "Don't tell Dad " prevailed. I have read some of your letters relating to that time. You lie or are in denial of of facts. " When the children have finished full time education." I heard about Hereford. Your version made only partial sense. You say that Emma was living with an abusive man.
Hey, Dianne, wake up. It's not always the man. I hear she was trying to cultivate him to give me a thump, it didn't work. Lewis sobbed his sad version of the affair over the phone. Yes he hit Emma he was most regretful professing that he loved her deeply, she on the other hand it appears was more intent on playing the field She took a risk by acting provocatively. Behaving badly. Stealing his money I hear to sponsor her extra affair with another man.; Lewis was understandably upset. Emma hit him and he,unsophisticated boy that he was responded in kind. They had both "dropped out" of full time education, working full time in the "chicken factory".
Your peculiar view voiced in a recent email that you were grateful that Emma "stands up " to me. That is far from being a good description of what she has done to date. Not more than an hours contact since I made that memorable Christmas visit some years ago. She can barely handle "Hello" in passing let alone meaningful conversation with her father. She runs away from every chance and opportunity. My door remains open, no need to kick it off. She has learned her way of coping from her mam. Yours being the dominant personality and psychological moral influence in the home. I would welcome her here if only for her to experience a Happy Dad. Little memory exists from the days when you cultivated your children into deceiving their father. It was by your licence that lying cheating and stealing were encouraged. Corruptive and neglectful parenting. Divisive and dishonest. Look at your own actions counselor. Your undue influence has caused greater damage than you would care to admit to anyone, not least yourself. Least of all to me. Some shit just won't wash out.
Both Toby and Emma were encouraged by you to not divulge when they had finished full time education, buying you time, playing me for a fool. Your corruptive example, for chance of undue profit and prize. Collusive assistance in your criminal deceit. The fathers view entirely. The intrigues surrounding the threesome lie are incidental the fact remains that deliberate attempt was made to cause me maximum inconvenience unfairly. contrary to your moral and legal duty. I naively waited trusting. The secretive familiar madness you cultivated and tolerated (enjoyed?), within the privacy of your home is your own sticky sordid business. Having been subjected to it, and having been excluded and driven out by it I will never be tolerant , passively silent nor submissive to it. That devil gets short shrift in my domain. I would conjecture that none of you are any much advanced on your awareness of a husband and fathers needs since those early days. Poorer you are for that. Poorer by the power of three. Dumbed down to accommodate your collective moral compromise.
What a strange effect you have had on any man that ever truly cared for you. I am glad I got out of that mess. You first husband Rodney's legendary "psychotic breakdown", my own frustrated anger under great pressure, Toby's lunacy. I would dare to say that your father too must have had his fill. What must Emma have learned by her mother's example. The same self serving manipulative competitive and grossly dishonest code you practiced in your own wayward teenage years. It appears you are no further forward in your moral development than those times. I believe that both children are now cursed by the same congenital flaw. I wont wear it. The damage is done in loyal service to your threesome exclusive pact. Stuff you avoid discussion of doesn't just go away because the three wise monkeys say so.I have taken the pains it is time you came to terms with your share of the discomfort. It is not of my making.
I would be of greater service to both of my children if my resources were to a degree duly restored , it is not only an issue of the Family court settlement and court order it will be a claim that in someway would acknowledge many other facts of circumstance, prior to divorce and continuing to the present day. The context for my action will I believe be clearly seen as morally and legally justifiable.
Greater service I would also be to my present spouse and the well being of my domestic life if restitution were made. Anne-Sophie has been forced to suffer much hardship by your undue and unwelcome influence.

A question occurs to me: Why, after you had decided to give up trading, having displaced me from my home and my sole source of income, why didn't you just give me the Key, the books and the responsibility and return my firm to its original owner? You instead concealed the account of my invested lifetimes work and jointly owned assets, putting what ever was liquidated in your own pocket. A tortuous conversion. Unlawful.
That means WRONG Dianne. Asset stripping our joint interest to my sole loss.concealing all proceeds that passed through the domestic account.. Your own affidavit condemns you. It is credible that you are compromised by your own intransigent conflict of interest. I would rather trust a courts judgement once they have a complete picture. than trust you now given your evident form.
I will close with that for now. Like it or lump it there will be more of one sort or another. Awaiting your fullest and most considered response with patience as usual. I hope this finds you well, enough to read, understand and reply civilly. You have my phone number my address and my email address. You have had ample time to construct a practical response. Yours sincerely,Reinold.
P.S. No worthy response now as regards my letters of late, will push towards posting correspondence on my Blog. In the fullness of time and at my discretion. My preference would be borne of our mutual effort to resolve matters honourably and equitably. One hopes. Reinold.